Pa Tsiku la Amayi mu 2026, ndikufuna kulemba za azakhali anga achiwiri.
Iye si munthu wotchuka kapena wodziwika bwino, komabe wakhala moyo wake wonse akutiuza tanthauzo lenileni la kukhala mayi komanso mphamvu ya mkazi.
I. Mtsikana Amene Anatuluka M'malawi a Nkhondo
Mu Meyi 1939, azakhali anga anabadwira ku Ganzhou, mu nthawi ya Republic of China.
Inali nthawi yachisokonezo. Pamene ankhondo aku Japan analowa mu Ganzhou, anagwidwa ali mwana. Analuma msilikali wa adani mwamphamvu ndipo anatha kuthawa. Kuti apulumuke, anapaka nkhope yake phulusa la chitofu, anabisala m'manda opanda kanthu kunyumba kwa wachibale wake kumidzi, ndipo anagwira mpweya wake pamene adaniwo ankamuyang'ana.
Ngakhale zinali choncho, sanasiye mabuku ake. Anachita bwino kwambiri pa maphunziro ake, koma ali kusukulu ya sekondale, bambo ake anamwalira mwadzidzidzi. Moyo wake unamuvuta kwambiri, koma sanagonje.
Mu 1956, adaloledwa ku Xi'an Jiaotong University — mtsikana wochokera ku Ganzhou yemwe adatsegula chitseko cha tsogolo ndi chidziwitso.
II. Zaka Zinayi za ku Koleji, Ulendo Umodzi Wokha Wobwerera Kunyumba
Kuti asunge ndalama, ankapita kunyumba kamodzi kokha pa zaka zake zinayi ku koleji. Nthawi yotsalayo, ankagwira ntchito yochepa mu laibulale ya yunivesite. Wophunzira wamkazi yemwe ankaphunzira za uinjiniya wa kutentha ankamuthandiza osati maphunziro ake okha komanso chikondi chake pa banja lake lakutali.
Atamaliza maphunziro ake, anapatsidwa ntchito yogwira ntchito ku fakitale yamagetsi.
Tsiku lina, pamene anali kupita ku dipatimenti yoona nsalu ku Xi'an Jiaotong University kukakumana ndi mnzake wa kwawo, anadziwitsidwa kwa mwamuna amene adzakhala mwamuna wake — amalume anga achiwiri.
Pa nthawiyo, amalume anga anali mphunzitsi wachinyamata. Atamaliza maphunziro awo ku Shanghai Jiao Tong University, anaphunzitsa ku Northwestern Institute of Technology (yomwe inayamba kutsatiridwa ndi Northwestern Polytechnical University). Abambo a amalume anga anali katswiri wodziwika bwino wa mbiri yakale akuphunzitsa ku Northwest University.
Azakhali anga atakumana naye koyamba, sankalankhula za chikondi. M'malo mwake, anali woona mtima:
"Ndine mwana wachiwiri m'banja mwathu. Ndiyenera kusamalira abale anga aang'ono. Malipiro anga ambiri ndipita kuti ndiwasamalire."
Amalume anga anayankha kuti: “Sinditenga ndalama zanu.”
Iye anasunga lonjezo limenelo kwa moyo wake wonse.
Monga ophunzira apamwamba kwambiri ku China koyambirira, onse awiri adatenga nawo gawo pantchito yayikulu yomanga dziko. Mpaka mu 1992 adabwerera limodzi kukaphunzitsa ku Jiangsu University…
III. Ana Aakazi Atatu, Magwero Atatu a Kunyada
Mu 1963, azakhali anga anakwatiwa ali ndi zaka 24.
Pambuyo pa ukwati, anabereka ana aakazi atatu — azibale anga atatu.
Iye ndi amalume anga sankasewera makadi kapena kuchita zinthu zopanda pake. Nthawi yawo yonse yopuma ankaigwiritsa ntchito pothandiza ana awo kuphunzira ndi kukula.
Lero:
Woyamba ndi mwamuna wake amayendetsa kampani ku LAX, ndipo amachita bwino ntchito zawo.
Wachiwiri amagwira ntchito ku Bank of China ndipo analera mwana wake wamkazi kuti akhale PhD mu sayansi ya makompyuta.
Wachitatu amakhala ndi kugwira ntchito ku Munich, ndi banja losangalala.
Ana aakazi atatu, miyoyo itatu yosiyana, aliyense akuwala m'njira yakeyake.
Ndipo azakhali anga nthawi zonse adzakhala gwero la kuwala kumeneko.
IV. Ali ndi zaka 87, akutenga kalasi ya Bridge
Mu Meyi 2025, azakhali anga anabwerera ku China kukakhala pansi. Zimenezi zinandipatsa mwayi wokhala nawo nthawi, kulankhula nawo, kukumbukira zakale — ndikuphunzira zambiri kuchokera kwa iwo.
Ali ndi zaka 87, ali:
Wamtendere komanso wodekha- wanzeru m'maganizo komanso wathanzi m'thupi.
Wakhama- kuwerenga tsiku lililonse, kutsatira nkhani, kulemba dayalo.
Maganizo otsekuka- posachedwapa adalembetsa ku kalasi ya bridge.
Kudalira– amakhulupirira kuti ana ake ali ndi luso lotha kukula okha.
Sindingathe kuletsa kumufunsa kuti: “Azakhali, chinsinsi chanu cha ukwati wachimwemwe n’chiyani? Ndikuganiza kuti ndicho chitetezo chachikulu chomwe mungapatse ana anu.”
"Mvetsetsanani ndipo khalani ololera. Dziwani kuti aliyense ali ndi mphamvu ndi zofooka, ndipo samaliranani kuchokera pansi pa mtima. Mikangano ikabuka, imani kaye, thetsani malingaliro anu, kenako kambirananinso."
Palibe nzeru zazikulu — nzeru wamba.
Nthawi zambiri amandiuza kuti: “Usadandaule kwambiri za mwana wako, Tian Tian. Khulupirira kuti adzakula bwino.”
Panthawi imeneyo, ndinachitira nsanje abale anga — chifukwa chokhala ndi amayi anzeru, ophunzira kwambiri, komanso odekha kwambiri.
Ndipo ndikuyamikira kuti, atabwerera kwawo, ndaphunzira zambiri kuchokera kwa iye.
V. Mphamvu ya Mkazi
Nkhani ya azakhali anga si nkhani yongopeka chabe. Ndi nkhani yokhudza kulimba mtima ndi kufatsa — mkazi wamba amene amayenda nthawi yapadera.
Pano ku JOFUNG, komanso pakati pathu, palinso amayi ambiri achichepere komanso omwe akukhala amayi posachedwa.
Nthawi zasintha, koma zinthu zina sizisintha —
Kudzipereka pakulera ndi kutsagana ndi ana.
Kulimba mtima komwe kumabwera chifukwa cha umayi.
Kuona zinthu patali kwa mayi wachikondi.
Mtima umene umakonzekera kwambiri ana ake.
Kuchokera kwa amayi wamba koma akuluakulu a m'badwo wakale, tikhoza kupeza mphamvu zosavuta komanso zokhalitsa: osati kukhala mayi wangwiro, koma kukhala mayi amene nthawi zonse amayesetsa kupita patsogolo, osataya mtima, ndipo nthawi zonse amakhulupirira ana ake.
Ndikulemba izi kuti ndilemekeze azakhali anga achiwiri — ndi mayi aliyense amene amawala mwakachetechete m'masiku ake wamba.
Judphone - Kuposa Kutumiza
JOFUNG Logistics ndi zinthu zina zoposa kungopereka katundu.
Tikufunanso kupereka chikondi, mibadwomibadwo, chomwe chiyenera kukumbukiridwa.
Tsiku Labwino la Amayi ku umunthu wokongola kwambiri padziko lonse lapansi.
Mukhale okondedwa nthawi zonse, omveka bwino, okondeka - omasuka, osangalala, komanso abwino!
Nthawi yotumizira: Meyi-18-2026